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Question:  What is the meaning of the term “nichum avelim” that I’ve heard at some funerals? 

E.F., Providence

Dear E.F.,

Nichum is a Hebrew term meaning “comfort” and avelim translates to “mourners.” When put together, however it could mean either the expression of “comforting mourners” or “sympathy.”

QUESTION: After I have preplanned and prepaid my funeral arrangements, what should I do? 

G.D., Providence

Dear G.D.,

Notify one or several family members, your attorney, your accountant or perhaps a friend (if you have no immediate family) the name of the funeral home and where your copy of the contract is located. The funeral home can also provide a copy to any person that you designate to receive one.

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